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AT MY AGE THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A SHORT BIO . . .

It’s been a while since I posted on my blog, but now that spring is officially near, I decided to introduce myself to new readers and re-introduce myself to my longtime followers.

The impetus for this resumption of activity may simply be the turn of the season, from the endless New England winter to the freshness of spring, with its light, color, scents, and moderate temps, making outdoor life more inviting and cheerful moods more possible.

Recently, the moderator of my new haiku study group asked everyone to introduce themselves with a short bio. An allotment of three minutes or 100 words is never enough, but it will have to be to give everyone a fair amount of air time. This is my submission in fulfillment of that assignment:

Life Story in a Nutshell

by Barrie Levine

I grew up in northern New Jersey in close proximity to extended family. Recreational pursuits consisted not of organized activities (except for piano lessons and Hebrew School), but of afternoons at the neighborhood playground, roller skating up and down the block, adventures (without adult supervision) in the undeveloped woodlot across the street, visiting my grandparents in the next town, and summers with my other grandparents on Long Island Sound.

Traveling twice in my grandparents’ Buick to Miami Beach was a highlight of my childhood, for which my cousins express their good-natured envy to this day.

After a tumultuous teen/college romance, I escaped New Jersey to stay with my aunt and uncle in Brookline, Massachusetts. But I wanted to establish my own young adult roots in Boston and soon found a roommate, Kris, with a Beacon Hill apartment to share. It was there I met Paul, a hairdresser at an upscale Newbury Street salon with two little boys. During our four year courtship, I earned my law degree and passed the bar in New Jersey and Massachusetts.

After our wedding, we moved to the North Shore to begin family life in earnest. Paul opened his own beauty salon salon in the town center and I opened my law practice in our house. My creative life was on hold all those years balancing family and career. But one of my proudest accomplishments was founding a Montessori School with a group of parents and serving as Chairwoman of the Board of Trustees.

Sadly, Paul passed away in 2013 and it was then that I began to write: grief and healing pieces, my blog, a monthly column for the town newsletter, and my memoir which is on hold for now, mostly because my writing energies are directed at my haiku practice. I published a collection of my poetry entitled Cotton Moon in 2022, fulfilling my dream of authoring a book in print.

I currently live with my life partner David, a retired psychotherapist and published author working on a coming of age novel taking place in the turmoil of the late 60s and early 70s. I like to think of us as a literary couple, in the tradition of Simone de Beauvoir and Jean Paul Sartre, but that is just my imagination running wild!

And remember that roommate Kris on Beacon Hill? It turns out that she is a prominent artist and haiku poet in Japan, having left Boston shortly after our lease was up.

Recently, we discovered each other through a random connection on facebook. I had given up all hopes of finding her because her last name is generic. She goes by her professional name so it was highly unlikely – but apparently not impossible – that we would run into each other somewhere between the Eastern and Western Hemispheres.

Haiku brought us together again after losing track of each other since 1972. Yes, that’s over 50 years ago, and now we see each other weekly on Zoom.

That is my story up to now. Stay tuned!

12 thoughts on “AT MY AGE THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A SHORT BIO . . .

  1. This was a great summary of your life as I know it, having been near you or observing it for most of the time. It was fun to see how you summarized the different eras and I think you did a great job.
    Sounds like a good challenge I might like to take up as well.

  2. Everyone should write a short bio of their life and set it aside. Grandchildren don’t care too much about our early life but one day……I loved yours even if I already knew it. Unbelievable to find your long lost roommate….. technology for good!
    Cousin Carol

    1. Thank you dear Carol for your loyal readership! So nice to hear that you liked my post. And yes, technology can work for good in unexpected ways. Kris had actually introduced me to Paul, so now I had a chance to thank her.

  3. Love reading your many haikus. Looking forward to reading more in the near future.
    Stay well

  4. It’s wonderful to hear that you are still going strong with your always interesting pieces and your haikus. In the distance I can faintly sense a return to spring and summer, and the opportunity to see you and David again.

    Davida

    1. Thank you dear friend for faithfully reading my posts. We very much want to see you when the weather improves, but still hibernating as winter wears on. We are thinking of you and Chuck and fervently hope he has progressed for the better.

  5. Barrie, I very much enjoyed your short bio & my growing up was very similar to your first paragraph. Since I lived in Philadelphia, we went to the southern shore, Atlantic City, of New Jersey. Our Spring is here with trees, bushes & plants in bloom. You have given me the inspiration to write my own short bio.

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